And since we’re already 3 days in, that means that our wedding is 4 weeks from today (meaning Wednesday!)! It’s getting to be crunch time, and the to-do list keeps growing, but it’s all good and exciting stuff!
So much to be happy about – August fairly flew by and was filled with awesomeness! For example –
A course at the U of M brought me to the Cities for a few days and Chris was on vacation so he tagged along! He enjoyed daytime adventures on foot in St. Paul and Minneapolis and we both enjoyed nights out in the Minneapple! We ate Mexican at Masa on Nicollet, yummy bar food on a rooftop off 1st Ave and desserts down below at Hell’s Kitchen; we drank cider and beer at Sociable Cider Werks with Marissa and her guy, and walked through the sculpture garden at the Walker Art Center! The highlight of the trip was seeing Paul McCartney at Target Field – amazing! What a beautiful and fun night – and what an incredible entertainer!
Many date nights with wedding planning as a topic of conversation. We’ve been to Cowboy Jack’s a few times, the Tap House and the Doggery (Chris discovered the Shallow End), and we saw “Boyhood” and “The November Man” in the theatre. We took a trip to IKEA and the Mall of America for wedding paraphernalia, and have shopped for furniture! Always on the go!
Ferragosto! It was an abbreviated version this year, but no less fun! We had wet campfires, hot hazy humid weather, no mosquitos, and many trips to the Hoy’s Resort for BYOB! No shortage of good food, good drinks, good talks, good belly laughs, and good relaxation! We watched a few movies and even danced and sang on the deck, while planning wedding reception songs! There will be photos – eventually!
Every day off in September is precious and filled with planning! So many details – but it is all so good! Looking forward to take-off on 9/29 and everything that week brings!
Since it’s the last day of “Happiness Happens Month,” August 2013, I wanted to get one more Happiness post in! It’s been a light blogging month, because so much fun has been going on! Many of the items listed below are worthy of their own posts, and I will work on that in September. So for now, here’s what’s making me happy – abbreviated August edition!
The most recent happiness: I went to Caribou to get my last caffeine infusion at 9:45 pm last night and the manager wouldn’t let me pay. Pay it Forward, I say!
And the Section of Social Work is strongly promoting that! I’m on the social committee (of course) and we organized a Random Acts of Kindness/ Pay it Forward event starting last week, so that’s exciting!
The Minnesota State Fair – three times this week! How crazy is that? I’ll blog more later about the awesome fun, delicious fried goodness and hot hot sweaty days. I’ve never gone 3 times in a year before.
Ferragosto! Also deserves at least one blog post because it was the BEST ever! (Until next year, right?) The weather was perfect, the food and drink were delicious, and friends came and went with perfection. It was hard to leave but the feeling continues! Storing that sunshine in my cells!
I am going to do another “book tour” blog/review! When I saw the question: “Did you like “Loving Frank” and “The Paris Wife“?” I bit! (Click to read my blogs about those books) “Freud’s Mistress” coming soon to this blog! Details to follow in another blog post!
Marissa is moved in to Minneapolis! She is living life large, of course, and I can only hope that when school begins she can fit in time for studying!
And now I must dash to work… life is great! What August memories are making you happy??
It is the 14th annual Happiness Happens day today, sponsored by the Secret Society of Happy People! Thought I’d do a quick “what’s making me happy” list to commemorate.
The Timehop app makes me so happy. I know I’ve mentioned it before (haven’t I?) but it’s an app that shows my social media posts from the last 1-5 years, as well as one thing in history from this day. Today it showed me my blog posts from the past few August 8ths (about school libraries and domain names), my Facebook posts and pictures (regarding gardens), and my twitter feed. Reminded me that Xanadu came out 33 years ago today and that it’s been one year since I purchased my own domain name. All good stuff.
My new glasses are making me happy – even though I feel like everyone freaks out a little when they see them! It’s pretty funny. They are a statement and so comfortable. It was such a good buying experience. I also am so happy to have my rose-colored Coach sunglasses turned into prescription sunglasses! Since I stopped wearing my contacts, I didn’t get to wear them as much, so now I’m happy to be able to wear them – and to stop squinting while driving!
It made me happy to dream a little about winning the lottery last night – I actually made a list of what I would do if I won some money. It clarified the travels I would love to do and how “stuff” isn’t as important as adventures. 🙂
I was asked to participate in another Book Blogger Book Tour! I will be receiving a book and review it during their book tour! September 17 is the date I will be reviewing Freud’s Mistress by Karen Mack and Jennifer Kaufman. This book tour is sponsored by TLC – the website where I won a box of books from! Love books!
Still on a high from the Superbowl of Books held the last week of July… so much fun. Maybe instead of twice yearly, we will have to do it quarterly!
Anticipating great fun at Ferragosto this year! I truly think it will be the best ever – and I haven’t even heard from some of you! 🙂 My kitchen is a mess with bags of food packed and ready, my suitcase is out with the important stuff in it (swimsuits and towels!), and I have many Ferragosto-type beverages packed and ready to go!
Having every weekend in August off is so exciting! Last weekend I had a great day long road-trip with this guy I’ve been hanging out with (woot! maybe more about that later???). Lots of fun stops, including the Marine Art Museum in Winona, Lakeview Drive-in, the Great River Road (?) in Wisconsin, a winery, River City Days in Red Wing, and dinner with Beth and Doug in Lake City. The day ended at Whistle Binkies on the Lake, sitting around the firepit with whiskey and bread pudding. Ah. It was a good day. And then to the lake on Sunday with Marissa and Jenny to see the Rochester Grimsrud’s. A perfect summer weekend off and a preview of my upcoming Ferragosto time!
I heard through the grapevine (my mom’s Facebook page) that Marissa is going to be able to move in early, so that last weekend in August that I don’t work I will be able to help her move in and get settled! Very excited that it can happen, as I work overnights that first weekend in September/Labor Day weekend, so I will be tired and zombie-ish.
Speaking of working overnights, that’s what I’m doing now. Well, I mean last night and tonight and tomorrow night. But I slept pretty good today – almost 7 hours – and I survived night one without much trouble. That makes me happy. 🙂
Watching Jimmy Fallon daily on my computer makes me happy. Last night I started looking at plane fares for NYC in October! So much to plan, which is almost the best part of a vacation – and hopefully Jimmy Fallon will be part of that trip! Woohoo!!! Troy – we’ve gotta talk! 🙂
Well, that’s all for now. Must get out of bed, get some food, and get ready for night 2! But tell me — what’s been making you happy lately? How are you celebrating Happiness Happens HappyThon today?
Yes, Quarter 4. In a few months I will be having another birthday! I have been so busy lately that I haven’t had much time for self-reflection, so I haven’t completed this thought yet. Let’s see what comes of it for now…
44 Things: Q4 – Things to DO or LOOK FORWARD TO! (July, August, September)
Fourth of July! Always a great time with family – relaxing time at the end of the dock, fireworks, great food and photo ops!
Plan a Book Fest! First annual? Bi-annual? Bookish food and treats? Crafts? Oh my! It’s coming right up, but it’s in the planning stages!
Ferragosto! I can’t wait for my made up mid-August celebration! More details to follow!
New York City! Looking forward to planning my annual trip to NYC! It will make turning a year older more palatable!
Books! Read and listen as much as possible!
Cosmo Girls! Start planning for 2013-2014!
State Fair? Go if I can!
Help Marissa move and get settled!
Ferragosto Ferragosto Ferragosto! I have a feeling it’ll be the best ever!
Sit down and … play piano or write poems or letters or play accordion… take time.
What do you think I should add to my list?
There were items from past lists that didn’t get done (closets didn’t get cleaned, strangers didn’t get conversations… ) but I am not one to beat myself up over undone lists. Most of the fun for me is imagining the possibilities and it is just bonus if they happen. Probably I should add “start thinking about being 45!” What will that mean? What fun things will happen?
And the living is easy
Fish are jumpin’
And the cotton is high
Oh, your daddy’s rich
And your mama’s good lookin’
So hush little baby now
don’t you cry
One of these mornin’s
You’re gonna rise up singin’
Then you’ll spread your wings
And take to the sky
But til that mornin’
Ain’t nothin’ can harm you
With your daddy
And your mammy
– George Gershwin and Dubose Heyward, Porgy and Bess
According to the Secret Society of Happy People today is the 13th Annual Happiness Happens Day. August is Happiness Happens Month. Or something. But I’m all about Happiness, so I’ll buy in to anything that may make others think about happiness and what makes them happy and how to make others happy. 🙂
So for today, here’s what’s making me happy:
My own domain name. Yes, I dropped the .wordpress.com and am now simply walkietalkiebookclub.com. For $18 per year, why not? Makes me feel legitimate or something. I’ll check with my email subscribers to see if they still receive the email, but otherwise you’ll have to bookmark the very first website that I ever owned!
I got 7 hours of sleep today! I worked overnight and was sooooooo tired this morning. I almost dozed off TWICE at work. I fell asleep shortly after 7 and woke up at 10 and was worried… but next thing I knew it was after 2! Yay! Bring on night two!
Planning and preparing for Ferragosto! I’ll blog more about Ferragosto later this week…
Planning things, in general, makes me happy. Right now I’m planning events for Cosmo Girls and my townhome community, another trip to NYC for my birthday, concerts (Jeremy Messersmith and Glen Hansard in September and Bruce Springsteen in November!), a Door County B&B stay with my fellow trivia contest winner in October, and maybe a spring adventure! I seriously have a piece of paper by my computer with my upcoming days off listed and possible events to check into. (I want to get to 4Daughters Winery!)
The UPS brought my latest purchases from B&N yesterday, including a frame with the quote by Victor Borga, ” Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” I can’t wait to put a fun picture in there! Other purchases included the When Harry Met Sally DVD (where did mine go???) and the book “Wild” by Cheryl Strayed for Marissa (I’m sure I’ll read it sometime, too!).
Well, that’s a snippet. I’m sure I’ll think of more. I love the Pop Culture Happy Hour podcast and they end every show with “What’s Making You Happy this Week.” I’ll try to do more of that! SO much to be happy about…
Following along with Boof’s 40 Day Challenge leading up to her 40th birthday, DAY 40! Happy birthday, Boof!
40) A favourite book about a celebration
I’m going to cheat. I looked through my Goodreads list and couldn’t find anything with a holiday theme that I would call a favorite, so I simply thought about my favorite holiday (Thanksgiving) and some great movies that were set around a Thanksgiving theme (and maybe one that isn’t set around Thanksgiving, but another holiday I’ve recently adopted).
Thanksgiving has long been my favorite holiday. I love thankfulness – thinking about what I’m thankful for, telling people what I’m thankful for, and writing what I’m thankful for. That “attitude of gratitude” has been preached to us by Oprah and I really believe that it can change your outlook on life. So, when I started thinking of movies that were centered around a Thanksgiving celebration, a few came to mind.
First, “What’s Cooking?” (In LA’s Fairfax district, where ethnic groups abound, four households celebrate Thanksgiving amidst family tensions. In the Nguyen family, the children’s acculturation and immigrant parents’ fears collide. In the Avila family, Isabel’s son has invited her estranged husband to their family dinner. Audrey and Ron Williams want to keep their own family’s ruptures secret from Ron’s visiting mother. In the Seelig household, Herb and Ruth are unwilling to discuss openly their grown daughter’s living with her lover, Carla. Around each table, things come to a head. A gun, an affair, a boyfriend, and a pregnancy precipitate crises forcing each family to find its center. IMDB) I should re-watch this, but I remember loving it. Loving how it wrapped up and how cleverly the story was told.
Of course, “Planes, Trains & Automobiles” is one of the greatest comedies ever, and just happens to be about getting home for Thanksgiving. I don’t think I need a synopsis for it. My favorite scene is when they are driving down the highway and being told they are going the wrong way (“How do they know where we’re going?”). Hilarious.
“Home for the Holidays” is also a movie I haven’t seen in a while, but I remember loving it. (After losing her job, making out with her soon to be ex-boss, and finding out that her daughter plans to spend Thanksgiving with her boyfriend, Claudia Larson has to face spending the holiday with her family. She wonders if she can survive their crazy antics. IMDB). Ah, family holiday dinners. 🙂 I am thankful that our Thanksgiving dinners are not filled with lots of drama!
The last movie about a holiday that has inspired me is the Italian film, “Mid-August Lunch,” a great movie about Ferragosto – the Italian tradition of getting out of the city for a few weeks during the hot weeks of mid-August. It is a great movie and a great holiday that I have embraced in the last few years, having my own “lakeside” vacation with Italian flair, right in the middle of Minnesota.
And as to my list, as I admitted yesterday, it was incomplete. Last night I did some thinking about how I wanted to move forward and here’s what I came up with: You know I love the Satellite Sisters and I have written about their book “Uncommon Senses.” I am going to create a list of things that I want to accomplish based upon the “senses” highlighted in their book.
The Sense of Connection
The Sense of Self
The Sense of Humor
The Sense of Adventure
The Sense of Direction.
As I’ve said about their book before, it applies as well today as it did ten years ago when it was written. And I know that I can find things in all those “senses” that I would like to put out there as challenges for myself. So as well as writing about books, I will be writing about these challenges.
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