Once again, I lapsed on posting daily. It’s been a fun three weeks posting with these five Senses, but I think I am going to pause and only post when I have grand things to say. 🙂 I will keep the Senses as topics but won’t be as rigid about the days I post or the topic I post on. But one last time…
Sense of Adventure: Online Dating Sites
Those who know me well, know that I dabble in online dating sites every now and then. I go in spurts and typically don’t tell people about the whole process, but I’ll inform a few close friends before I ever meet anyone in person (for safety’s sake). I’m pretty private about it all on the whole, but willing to talk about it if asked. I can’t believe I am posting about it here (for the ten people who read my blog!)! I think that people who have never had to rely on personal ads of any sort have little understanding of it, and it feels sort of awkward telling them about it. It is a weird little world, online. 🙂
It’s an interesting process, perusing the personals. I follow gut instincts in whether or not to reach out to someone. I don’t post pictures (I see too many people I either know or recognize, and as I said, I’m kinda private about it!) and I usually don’t tweak my ad once its written. As I said above, I go in spurts. I will not look at all for months at a time and then I’ll hit it hard for a while. I’m not sure what the pattern is but having more time seems to lead to more perusing, that’s for sure.
The latest Rochester Magazine features Single in the City folks – seven or so young singles talking about themselves and the Rochester dating scene. I can’t imagine being that public with my singledom, I never have. But I also know that I have people who are always thinking about me and looking for that guy who will make my eyes light up. Being single is something that I look upon as an adventure. My life is filled with great people and adventures, but having a partner to go forward in life with is still something I’m looking for!
I didn’t get my Friday post written until today. Fridays are always such busy days! And Thursday was a busy day as well, with Cosmo Girls in the evening! Cosmo Girls was a great amount of fun, with almost all of us in attendance, and an amazing woman teaching us about natural soaps and skin care! We got to make our own sugar scrub and got a bar of shaving soap. Amazing! It think it may change my life! Ha! But she was an amazing woman with an amazing story.
She was diagnosed with leukemia 16 years ago and given a 17% chance of surviving five years (long story short) and to deal with the reactions her skin was having to her treatments, she was given a bar of pure soap which gave her comfort. She decided to make her own soap and her friends encouraged her to pursue it as a business. She waited until her cancer was in remission and she outlived their expectations and then she went for it. That was ten years ago and today her business is booming.
What an inspirational story of someone who is passionate about what she is doing. With a clear purpose and personal fulfillment in her business. It’s so fun to learn from amazing women!
Once again, Friday’s post about having a sense of direction proves to be the most difficult to write. It is, as I said before, something I am obviously spending a lot of time thinking about, but I am feeling pretty private and don’t want to spill all those beans all over this blog. So if you want to know more about my thoughts about what I want, where I am going, how I’m going to get there, schedule some one-on-one time with me and we’ll discuss!
But what I do know for sure is that joy is something that I want to have in my life and that I will continue to seek out and to work toward. I don’t have a hard time finding joy in little things.
I find a lot of joy in my little townhome and the beautiful things that surround me.
I’ve been able to take three of the kids to school three days this week, and it’s fun to see their happy faces in the morning and drop them off with “I love you’s”
Getting up early and going to a 6AM Bible study has made Thursdays into super long days and I really think it’s pretty cool!
Rewatching movies from my movie shelves has been a lot of fun
Singing and reconnecting with Rushford friends on Monday has brought me a lot of joy this fall
Baking cookies and breads (and dinners!) for friends and family brings me joy
Participating in the Anna Karenina readalong with friends and lots of people I don’t know is a lot of fun, and books bring me lots of joy!
I could go on and on with my list, but I’ll stop there for now. Below are some good quotes I found about joy and finding joy in your work. I hope you enjoy!
Work is love made visible. And if you cannot work with love but only with distaste, it is better that you should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work with joy. Khalil Gibran
We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves. Buddha
Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties. Helen Keller