Yes. I’ve been absent from my blog for a while. Life has been busy – and good!
I went to a few football games under the Friday night lights and in the steamy heat of a Saturday – ah, September in MN
I spent time with friends, sitting in the creek with margaritas on that steamy Saturday, celebrating milestone birthdays, and organizing Cosmo Girls for year 4
I’ve been spending time with this guy I have been dating, whenever our schedules (and the stars) align.
I was preparing for a trip to NYC, so I had to work a little extra on the front end.
I made it to two movies in the theatre: The Family (with Chris) – a mobster in witness protection. Robert DeNiro still has it, at 70 years old! Amazing. The Spectacular Now(with Marie) – I was excited to see this, and it didn’t live up to expectations. It was just ok and mostly depressing.
I finished Orange is the New Black on Netflix, and it is worth watching.
I spent a lot of time listening to Broadway Cast Recordings of Cinderella and Matilda and reading My City, My New York in preparation for my (annual) birthday trip to New York City.
So, yes, now there has been a birthday.
I flew out 9/30/13 and spent my 45th birthday (10/1/13) in NYC celebrating in style! I’ll do a recap post of that trip later, but it was another amazing trip which makes me feel so blessed.
For my 44th year, I divided the year into quarters and made lists of 11 things to do or look forward to in each quarter. I didn’t complete them all, but it was a fun way to organize the year. You can read the summary posts from the first three quarters here: Quarter 1, Quarter 2, Quarter 3.
Here is a wrap-up of the 4th quarter of my 44th year:,
my final 11 things:
Fourth of July! Always a great time with family – relaxing time at the end of the dock, fireworks, great food and photo ops!
Plan a Book Fest!First annual? Bi-annual? Bookish food and treats? Crafts? Oh my! It’s coming right up, but it’s in the planning stages! It was SOOOO awesome! You can read all about it here! I am just starting to think about Book Fest 2.0!
New York City! Looking forward to planning my annual trip to NYC! It will make turning a year older more palatable! The trip is history – and it definitely was a great time… such a great way to spend a birthday!
Books! Read and listen as much as possible! Tragic fail… keep on plugging away! I actually did TWO book reviews and giveaways this quarter, so I guess that’s where my reading was focused – on The Promise of Provence and Freud’s Mistress – click to read more!
Cosmo Girls! Start planning for 2013-2014! Organized and rolling along! We had a great organizational meeting and a terrific first meeting of the year! It’s going to be a great year!
State Fair? Go if I can! I guess I can – I went THREE times!
Help Marissa move and get settled! Done! It was a hot hot day we moved her in, but she is well-settled, the apartment is cute, and she is having a great time and great success in graduate school! Woot!
Ferragosto Ferragosto Ferragosto! I have a feeling it’ll be the best ever! Again – see above! It was terrific!
Sit down and … play piano or write poems or letters or play accordion… take time. Well, also a fail. Didn’t get much “time” for any of that but it’s all good!
What do you think I should add to my list?
So as you can see, not even 11 things on the list, but still a fun way to remember the year.
And for this year, 45?
Maybe I’ll do something creative with 45 records (remember them?) like “on the flip side” or “B Side”… have ideas?
I learned that 45 is the sum of all the numbers (0+1+2+3+4+5+6+7+8+9 = 45), the dialing code for Denmark (+45), a gun or ammunition (.45), and the sapphire wedding anniversary.
Elvis Costello wrote this song called 45 (http://youtu.be/KPZkldKk1WA), referring to record singles and his age when he wrote the song. A catchy song… There are lots more songs and movies and other information you can read about online – thanks Wikipedia!
So I haven’t fleshed out the plan or theme for being 45, but I’m enjoying every minute of it so far!
A weird work schedule (really? it’s always weird!) has me feeling very Saturday-ish today, so I have to get in the Sunday mode! Especially since I have to work early Monday morning! Then a few days off before I work my very first holiday – Easter weekend. I hope to make it to the interfaith service at the beautiful Chapel at St. Mary’s, at least for part of it. Sunday morning can’t be that busy in the Emergency Department, right?
Anyway, not much to fill you in on except that I watched the movie The Sessions last night – and it was just so good!
It’s based on a true story about a man who is a journalist and a poet and lives most of his day in an iron lung. He interviews people with disabilities about their sex lives and then wishes to lose his virginity. It’s a nice story about this humorous and intelligent man, his relationship with his priest, his caregivers and the sex surrogate he hires after seeing a sex therapist. It’s about love and life and poetry. Good stuff!
Here’s a link to the article written by Mark O’Brien after his sex surrogate experience. I haven’t read it all, but will!
Next in my DVD player is The Intouchables – a story about a person who becomes a quadriplegic after a paragliding accident. He’s very wealthy and hires a man from the projects to be his caregiver, and boy do they have fun! Living life to the fullest. Good stuff!
Triple these movies with the book I just finished for book club – We Are All Welcome Here by Elizabeth Berg – and there’s a theme! I love Elizabeth Berg books and this was no exception. This book is about a woman who contracts polio late in her pregnancy and delivers a healthy baby while in an iron lung. She remains paralyzed with full feeling in her body (like Mark O’Brien in The Sessions) and raises her daughter to be a strong independent woman. It’s a fictional account of an actual person’s life (ala The Sessions, as well!). Good stuff!
Good stuff that is coming up:
Planning an Anna Karenina viewing party with a few people (most of my fellow-walkietalkie peeps!) who love classical literature and may have started the book or intend to read the book sometime! I’m the only one to have finished it. 🙂 We’re having beef stroganoff, pickled beets, white Russian cupcakes, and vodka (of course!)! Love a good theme and in this early spring, Russian literature is a good one!
Some fun Aunt-related activities coming up this week, including a Seder dinner and a RockTown tour! And it’s a niece’s birthday today so my gift is a shopping trip, hopefully this week!
It will be weird to work on Easter weekend, but I try to remember that no one wants to be hospitalized on Easter, either, so I will do my best to be a blessing to those I see!
Book club on April 2 for We Are All Welcome Here – with a 60s feel! Pizza burgers, potato chips, a classic dessert, Coke in bottles… good stuff!
Marissa got accepted into graduate school, so we will be exploring housing options in the Cities soon! That is something fun to look forward to!
And I’ve gotta work on my list for 44 Things: Q3 as it is right around the corner!
But first, today I’m getting together with friend Beth to celebrate her birthday, which was on the first day of Spring! Yay for friend time!
How about you? What does your Sunday look like? What are you looking forward to?
Goodness… we’re tripping right along into the end of March, aren’t we? How did that happen? I was feeling unsuccessful in my 44 Things: Q2, until I looked at it. I guess I’m not doing too badly – which is what happens when you simply document “things to look forward to” with a few added “things to do.” I think I felt unsuccessful because I haven’t given it much thought lately. So as we all push into the latter half of March, here’s my recap: 44 Things – Quarter 2 (Jan-Feb-Mar)
A January mini-vacation at Deadra’s, including many movies and much wine! It was a great mini-vacation at Deadra’s! Good conversations, good wine, good food, and a good (great!) movie! As well as some great dance parties!
Read “Persuasion” by Jane Austen with Wallace’s readalong in January – I fully participated in the “Persuasion” readalong! Woot! Readalongs are so good… inspires you to have a deadline, critically think about what you’re reading, attempt coherent communication about those thoughts. Good stuff. I didn’t participate in her next one, “Crime & Punishment,” but a friend is and is loving the book! Guess I’ll have to add that to my TBR list!
START reading “Gone With the Wind” in February – it’s so large I’m not sure I can finish it in two months! But it’s after “Persuasion”! I started it! Had a few great days of reading and then kind of fell off that wagon… I’m on pg 200 (of 900) so quite a ways to go. It is a great book and amazing how much of it is already in my head through the movie and knowledge of the movie. Hopefully I will have quality reading time throughout the month so that I can finish sooner than later! So many books to read!
“The Book of Mormon” with Deadra and John in February! This was such a fun event! We had dinner at a great Indian restaurant (Bombay Bistro), a brisk walk to the show, and belly laughs throughout! I already posted about turning my pins into magnets (making me happy!), and when I hear someone shout, “Hello!” I usually sing the next line in my head! Good stuff!
Host a baby shower for a work colleague at my house on February 13! This was a lot of fun, too! It was fun to share my home with my new co-workers, meet family of the guest of honor, have delicious and fun food and drink, and simply socialize with the great people I work with!
Gaelic Storm in March with Kristine! Last weekend we finally saw them in concert! We have been talking about going to see them for more than a year and it finally happened. It was so fun! It was at the Fitzgerald Theatre, which was fun to see on its own, and they are so fun to listen to! Clever, quirky, energetic, and fun! A great concert with great friends!
Social-ICE in February!Already blogged a bit about this, but worth mentioning that it was a great time once again!
Walk at least twice weekly and do yoga once weekly. I was doing pretty good at this – in fact it was happening for all of January and into February. But horrible knee pain has derailed that and I think it’s been a month since I walked for exercise, as I can barely walk to “get where I’m going” without terrible pain. There’s been a doctor’s visit, a steroid shot, and now I don’t know what the plan is. Bummer, eh? So I’ve been focusing on healthy food choices (and easy quick cooking meals, since it hurts to stand in the kitchen and cook!) instead of getting my heart rate up. Boo.
Spray Tan! Get the look of a summer glow! Have not done this yet but will have to make a plan for that soon! Maybe next week during my days off… or maybe before Easter… or maybe on April 1 so the glow moves in to Q3!
Pick a closet and clean it out OR watch all of the Oscar nominated movies (which would you rather do??) Well, I didn’t get either one fully done – yet! I still haven’t seen Amour, Django Unchained, or Zero Dark Thirty. I’m ok with that to this point, but I will look for them on DVD when they’re available. Still can’t wait to purchase Silver Linings Playbook, as it was my favorite of all. And cleaning? Hmmm.. maybe I’ll get to a closet. We’ll see!
Invigorate book club and plan ahead for the year. Well, we met in February to discuss The Great Gatsby and ate and talked for 4 hours! We did discuss the book and are now reading another book from the Book Club in a Bag program – We Are All Welcome Here! And we have a date picked for our next meeting – April 2. No plan for the year, but a little more planful to get together!
Well, there’s my list – as I said, I haven’t done as badly as I thought I had! I will have to start making my list of 44 Things: Q3 very soon, as April will no doubt be here before I blink again!
The New Year feel has settled in. I think I’ve already gotten used to typing 2013 at work!
So now it’s time to think about my 2nd quarter of 11 fun things to do and look forward to!
(I think it needs a new name! It’s so cumbersome! 44 Things Quarter 2?)
My FALL list was not completed: I did NOT shop early for Christmas or play accordion weekly. But I don’t feel regrets or guilt about not accomplishing things…
it just means that other things popped up and pushed them out of the way!
So my WINTER list of things to do or look forward to starts here:
44 Things – Quarter 2 (Jan-Feb-Mar)
A January mini-vacation at Deadra’s, including many movies and much wine!
Read “Persuasion” by Jane Austen with Wallace’s readalong in January
START reading “Gone With the Wind” in February – it’s so large I’m not sure I can finish it in two months! But it’s after “Persuasion”!
“The Book of Mormon” with Deadra and John in February!
Host a baby shower for a work colleague at my house on February 13!
Walk at least twice weekly and do yoga once weekly.
Spray Tan! Get the look of a summer glow!
Pick a closet and clean it out OR watch all of the Oscar nominated movies (which would you rather do??)
Invigorate book club and plan ahead for the year
Well, that wasn’t what I thought it would be, but there you have it! I am maybe forgetting some of the things that I know that I will be looking forward to! Yikes… I started writing this down somewhere. And I’m still kicking around a list of THINGS for 2013, sort of like last year’s list. It may be an over-arching list, or maybe a theme word or statement for the year… still thinking about it on paper.
How about you? How do you feel about resolutions? Would you rather pick a theme WORD or STATEMENT (ala Let ‘er Rip) than set goals? Do you avoid these altogether?